Marroed but dating
That doesn’t mean in some alternate universe that I wouldn’t like to be able to have my cake and eat it, too.That’s essentially what alpha males do – get married and keep sleeping with other women.It is entirely based on physical attraction, which we feel instantly with the release of dopamine, serotonin, and testosterone.This is why men can know if they would sleep with you in less than five seconds. I think it’s largely based on societal reinforcement.And, if it is sexual arousal, does that happen only in seeing a naked woman (magazine, strip joint, porn) or does that happen when you see a beautiful clothed woman as well?I have always been very curious about this as I think it is very different for women.Men, regardless of relationship status, get a chemical high in seeing attractive women.
It would never even occur to me after 300 dates and nearly 10 years as a dating coach that there’s anyone out there who’d make me happier for the next forty years than my own wife.
The more self-aware men understand this intellectually, and relegate those spikes of attraction to what they are – biologically programmed bursts of pleasure. Men can admit attraction to favorite celebrities, and still be great husbands and fathers.
We give ourselves doses of this pleasure when we’re walking on a beach, when we’re at an outdoor concert, when we’re at parties, and especially when we’re on the Internet. Men can watch porn, fantasize about other women, and still be great husbands and fathers.
–Cat Dear Cat, Thoughtful and provocative question, and I’m going to attempt to tackle it even though I’m no therapist, historian or biologist.
First off, I want to acknowledge that everything you wrote, in my estimation, is true.
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Most men, for example, agree that symmetrical faces with small noses and certain hip to waist ratios (thin waist, wider hips) are considered attractive.